Frequently Asked Questions

Hebrews134 is a Christian introduction ministry created to help men and women who are serious about marriage pursue connection with clarity, purpose, and biblical values.

This ministry exists to remove the confusion, casualness, and misalignment often found in modern dating culture and to create space for intentional, God-honoring relationship pursuit.

No. Hebrews134 is not a dating app and does not function like one.

There is no swiping, browsing, algorithms, or self-selection. Individuals are not placed into pools or presented as options. Instead, Hebrews134 facilitates intentional, prayerfully considered introductions between individuals who share aligned values, life direction, and readiness for marriage.

At Hebrews134, we intentionally eliminate the modern dating culture's approach to finding a spouse.

Rather than casual dating, endless options, or uncertainty about intentions, we facilitate intentional introductions between individuals who are aligned in their readiness for marriage, values, and life direction.

When you are introduced to someone through Hebrews134, you can trust that:

• They are just as serious about marriage as you are
• Your timelines are aligned (for example, readiness for marriage sooner rather than later)
• Important life goals—such as views on children, family planning, and faith—have been thoughtfully considered
• You share core Christian beliefs and values

This process is designed to remove unnecessary guesswork and confusion, allowing both individuals to pursue a connection with clarity and purpose.

That said, Hebrews134 does not build the relationship for you.

The real work of developing a meaningful relationship—building trust, having deep conversations, growing emotional and spiritual intimacy, and discerning chemistry—belongs to the two individuals involved. Meaningful connections require intentional time, honesty, and effort, and that responsibility cannot be outsourced.

Our role is to make the introduction.
Your role is to steward the relationship.

No. Hebrews134 does not use matching algorithms, compatibility formulas, or automated systems.

We facilitate prayerfully considered introductions between individuals who have expressed aligned desires, values, and readiness for marriage.

Hebrews134 is for:

• Christian men and women who desire marriage, not casual dating
• Individuals who are ready to pursue a relationship with intention and clarity
• Those who value faith, discernment, and accountability
• Individuals willing to invest time and effort into building a meaningful relationship

This ministry may not be a good fit if you:

• Are unsure whether you want marriage
• Are seeking casual dating or companionship
• Prefer browsing or choosing from large groups of people
• Are unwilling to engage in an intentional, values-based process

Hebrews134 follows a structured, intentional process designed to ensure clarity, readiness, and alignment before any introductions are made.

Completion of the process does not guarantee an introduction or marriage. All introductions are subject to discernment, availability, and alignment.

Yes. A $75 application and processing fee is required only after your basic application has been reviewed and approved.

This fee supports:

• Administrative processing
• Review of detailed questionnaires
• Interviews and reference checks
• The time, prayer, and discernment involved in the process

No. The fee covers the process, not the outcome.

Hebrews134 does not guarantee an introduction, compatibility, chemistry, or marriage.

Timelines vary depending on:

• Completion of applications and references
• Availability of aligned individuals
• Prayerful discernment

We prioritize quality and clarity over speed.

Once an introduction is made:

• Communication and relationship development are between the two individuals
• Hebrews134 steps back
• The responsibility for building the relationship belongs to the individuals involved

We strongly encourage intentional communication, prayer, and wise counsel during this time.

No. Hebrews134 is not a counseling service. Applicants are encouraged to seek:

• Premarital counseling
• Pastoral guidance
• Church accountability

You may apply by visiting the Application Page and submitting the basic application.

For additional questions, please send us an email and we will get back with you.